The Silent Words

This is what happens when you live inside your own comfort shell.

You have been brought up in a modest environment where you see yourself around a disciplined man who is not silent but extremely audacious about the mistakes that are unacceptable. In certain circumstances I used to think how could anyone spend quality time with this person, leave aside life.

Sometimes we think that life is short so make merry, enjoy to the fullest without any regrets or worries. What I actually want to share is if we are not careful about our lives from our younger self, we can face sordid situations which one can’t even imagine. This dates back to the time when my father was so financially stable and savvy about life that I could never think that his financial instrument would be destroyed discreetly by his own people.

There is a saying, “ Money comes , money goes ” who can even get to the bottom of this? Unless your creator wants to teach you a lesson but also looks upon the seriousness of the situation and always wants to help.

Friends I am not a Money Geek, but few pointers for you to consider.

  1. Do not keep quiet if your partner, girlfriend or spouse tries their best to destroy your financial stability.
  2. Try to inform your RM ( Relationship Manager) which every bank designates.
  3. Always remember that if someone tries to do something fraudulent with financial aid, irrespective whichever country you live, you can always lodge a complaint against them.
  4. Last but not the least never ever accept defeat for any reason irrespective who they are or what kind of relationship you are with them.
  5. Do not let anyone sabotage you with their words or face value.
  6. If such things even occur, then silent words work like sharp arrows, that’s God’s will to step in and help you.
  7. Silent words are like powerful prayers, you simply use them at the right time and right moment.

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I will make you rich

Someone sits on some market street and sells this “mantra to a whole world.” Like any vendor selling his products in the local wet market. I wonder how Singapore would look if financial products or loans were sold at a wet market. Jokes apart, it is not funny when you fall for such things, like ” I will make you rich “, “you will become rich before you hit 30“. “you look rich, how aren’t you say you aren’t rich ” and there are more.

I am sitting in Singapore and living a reasonably moderate life all my years. I have understood one secret mantra that you do not get rich in a jiffy. Neither one can be as fit as a fiddle without any proper exercise or a well-balanced diet. Too much hyped sugar-coated tart messages marketed to you either in the form of a subscription or SMS might define unknown trouble.

Read this with a pinch of salt. That’s total bs***

I am no finance guru, but I would like to share a straightforward fact with you like an average commoner. One must have some rainy day savings and, above all, a savings plan which one has access to, not in some policies but which one can access with ease. That must not be shared with anyone, not even with your best chum. Try to focus on building your wealth cause you are not an ATM machine that will churn out money when you are badly in need of it. Neither those subscriptions will pay you back, I mean those who had promised you some years ago that they will make you rich. Let us face the most brutal fact ever. When you are seriously in need of money, friends start distancing, relatives don’t entertain you, or your loved ones just keep you out of their social list. Cause one can’t predict rain, neither anyone could expect a calamity in the form of a pandemic.

So the most important thing for such situations is always to have secured funds for a rainy day. If you are a student, a writer, an entrepreneur, or a businessman, always remember to keep an active savings fund where you can save your money every month. This will not only help you when such situations occur, but you can also deal with it smartly and not sadly.

Out of 108 people inside a room, maybe 30 of them had secured their rainy day funds when they understood the worth and value.

I did mine too from an age when I realized that money is not about Gucci bags and Louis Vuitton wallets or Dior makeup. It is like a fad statement that is good enough for temporary pleasure.
.. I just reminded myself of one thing I heard in some video where the glamorous mystic Sadhguru mentions that “do you wish to live a life of a bhogi, a rogi or a yogi
Staying or experiencing a monk’s life is not a trajectory; neither starting a savings plan at the eleventh hour will be of any help to you. What you can do now is “being in the moment” and growing your wealth most securely and with a conscious effort.

So much for now, as I scribble these lines from my comfort zone, that is my home in Singapore, like nothing as much relaxing and content to be alive every moment with the sounds and smell of what I call “Truly Asia.”

It’s time to wind up, and before I log off, stay safe and protected, my dear friends, wherever you are. And do not forget to wear your mask.

Good Night 😛

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