Some People… & Cats !!!

Sometimes we forget that we had been young and vulnerable in our lives.

We had children 🧒 and it was our sole responsibility as a mother to protect our children from harm or injury.

I don’t know how to put this across but 60% women around the world are subjected to physical abuse by their controlling partners/boyfriends, including their in-laws who make it even harder and sometimes difficult for their own son’s emotional well being by forcing them to leave their homes and stop supporting their  family members. This is not just a problem it’s a social disease that no one discusses in the open. It’s always under control and cover up by their own relatives. So why the influencers on Instagram keep posting cats !!! Only the cats but never even share the hidden dilemmas of some cats who are caged and beaten up and not even given proper treatment and food. Why such things go unnoticed???? 

Practically who even cares, ad long as the algorithm matches somewhere and some place. This isn’t even close to what you pictured after reading this and what I wanted to share further. Maybe I should voice the topic again. Not every skeleton must be kept inside safekeeping, some should be removed and seen whether it’s after ten years or twenty years, once a while someone must remove them from hiding, and have the mind to share with the world out there.

©️ Ithinkfree 

Daughters of the Cross 🧩

Today I want to share some thoughts on how values and ethics affect relationships, be it a business or personal and how one weak moment or an insignificant moment can destroy a relationship. This looks a bit like a good example of unseen financial problems which crop up along the way with other uncertainties.

The most inspiring part about living and experiencing life is, understanding life and addressing life’s challenges by talking with relevant people and institutions.

If you have zero 0️⃣ awareness about finance and how you need to invest or spend, it’s always advisable to check out with your nearest aid if they have experience in a Financial Support.

There is always 70% chances of a win situation but ultimately it’s your call of duty towards the basic understanding and goals that matters. Just because you don’t have any idea or understanding of finance, you have no right to destroy someone’s assets by involving your distant relatives who very smartly take advantage of your gibberish self and pour in all kinds of wrong advice.

If I’m writing the subject

“ Daughters of the Cross ” it means if you have invested in good morals and values and haven’t turned into a Boss candidate then you can rely on your own conscience.

Sometimes some actions are necessary to understand the equal and relevant reactions. 🙂

Sometimes you have so much wealth that you simply cannot handle or manage it. Sometimes to help your affluent family members you destroy your own life’s fortune, not financial but personal.

There is a strange thing going in the background))) like a vinyl player that keeps playing the recorded truth.

©️ Ithinkfree

The Silent Words

This is what happens when you live inside your own comfort shell.

You have been brought up in a modest environment where you see yourself around a disciplined man who is not silent but extremely audacious about the mistakes that are unacceptable. In certain circumstances I used to think how could anyone spend quality time with this person, leave aside life.

Sometimes we think that life is short so make merry, enjoy to the fullest without any regrets or worries. What I actually want to share is if we are not careful about our lives from our younger self, we can face sordid situations which one can’t even imagine. This dates back to the time when my father was so financially stable and savvy about life that I could never think that his financial instrument would be destroyed discreetly by his own people.

There is a saying, “ Money comes , money goes ” who can even get to the bottom of this? Unless your creator wants to teach you a lesson but also looks upon the seriousness of the situation and always wants to help.

Friends I am not a Money Geek, but few pointers for you to consider.

  1. Do not keep quiet if your partner, girlfriend or spouse tries their best to destroy your financial stability.
  2. Try to inform your RM ( Relationship Manager) which every bank designates.
  3. Always remember that if someone tries to do something fraudulent with financial aid, irrespective whichever country you live, you can always lodge a complaint against them.
  4. Last but not the least never ever accept defeat for any reason irrespective who they are or what kind of relationship you are with them.
  5. Do not let anyone sabotage you with their words or face value.
  6. If such things even occur, then silent words work like sharp arrows, that’s God’s will to step in and help you.
  7. Silent words are like powerful prayers, you simply use them at the right time and right moment.

©️ ithinkFree

The Silent Mechanism

Few years ago, life would have seemed a bit different if I had been more careful about my instincts and observations. It wasn’t until three years later, I was at a different place and point of time where I read some kind of apathy, which someone close had shared in their emotional state.

I was thinking about my entire life span which dwelled upon my silly assumptions.

Sometimes you do not get to know or see the real world or the people around until something happens or the universe changes its course of action and helps you to understand the practical side of life.

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True but now my mind keeps on trying to figure out what kind of people we grow up with doesn’t mean you actually know them well, till you reach at the age where you know what they really have been for real.

Then begins the process of , “ The Silent Mechanism ” and you try your best to ignore them and create a void of numbness that is thoughtful enough to ponder once a while.

Then you have the option to get to know more about the truth and the world around. Some days I just don’t care about what I decipher and on other days I get a little concerned. Hence this is my hypothesis about the silent side of life.

©️ ithinkfree

Echoes of my Past

Pause

Sometimes we keep the essence of our thoughts in a very calm state. This does not mean we don’t ponder or think about it. There is a void growing inside modern societies, where you can feel lost if you do not flow with the wind, but where and which kind of skies would you follow?

These days people are more like a shopping cart. The urban economy is under pressure, and whether you like it or not, someone has said it or posed it correctly I strongly believe, the understanding of the idiom,

Cut your coat according to the cloth ” has hit 80% of social economy. Recently someone shared this wedding scene inside a French household, the bride wanted a minimal small private wedding, but the grooms family was not keen about it, later, they wanted to split the expenses, but after so much exchange and discussion of ideas. It seems to work extremely chaotic. Sometimes, all that savings inside your bank doesn’t mean anything if there is improper planning and the amount of criticism that accompanies with it.

There is this very famous Fat Indian Weddings, which is quite a eye opener, to the fact that how many times the bride wears their purchased decor later on?

Abruptly ended the post as it was accumulating dust in my drafts folder. (:

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©️ lazy thoughts of an urban mind